I’m sorry you’ve felt forced into using a set of pronouns you don’t fully align with :( I hope you can ignore those judgy people one day, you’re always queer enough no matter how you present. Honestly I’ve felt kinda the opposite, I feel like I can’t use he/him because of how I present and how I want to be included in the queer community, so I use he/they. But I do fw being called they like once every couple months so ig it’s not too bad

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