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The thoughts of detransitioning have been getting louder because of how hard every aspect of my life will be if i go through with transitioning, especially my dating life 🫩
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Anonymous 1d

If your partner wouldnt love you if you transition, they’re not right for you. If you’re talking about dating in general, yes it can be harder, but also theres so much community out there and people you would never expect to love you as you are. The trans life is a rough one, but that’s what makes us so amazing. Were able to put up with so much bullshit and yet we stay strong. Dont let society tear you down just because you’re not conforming to their rules💪

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Anonymous 1d

there will always be someone out there to love you for you!! i am so incredibly lucky to have a boyfriend who cherishes me as i am and just wants me to be happy and who i am. and i want the same for him. i absolutely adore him with every fiber of my being, and we are beyond happy together. that is waiting for you. it'll happen.

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Anonymous 1d

I feel you, being trans can be a very isolating experience and the hardships you face sometimes dont feel worth it. It’s good to pause or take things slow until you’re in a safer, more stable place in your life - however, if the doubts are only out of fear of rejection, that is something you will have to face either way

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Anonymous 1d

It is always worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> that_sage_ant_69 1d

I needed to hear this. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

You both sound lovely !! Thank you for the reassurance, ive regained a little bit of hope

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