Trans Talk on Sidechat | can't get over being told i'm not actually trans because i don't have a look goal. like dude my only goal is to look like a man, and do so enough that if i dress femininely i'll still be perceived as a man. i can't control what T will do to me

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Trans Talk 2w

can't get over being told i'm not actually trans because i don't have a look goal. like dude my only goal is to look like a man, and do so enough that if i dress femininely i'll still be perceived as a man. i can't control what T will do to me

Anonymous 2w

i would also have them try to convince me that i'm actually nb like i haven't been there done that and eventually moved on and discovered who i really am. cis people are so annoying sometimes

Anonymous 2w

??? this is the dumbest thing i have ever heard. do i have to know what the tacos are gonna look like to know i still want mexican food? no. maybe that’s a bad analogy but i’m just kind of baffled someone would try to say that to you

Anonymous

#1 2w

thank you!! to me, even cis people can have "goals" on what they want to look like as they age, but there's only so much a person can control. i already feel dysphoric about how i am now, so why punish myself by putting myself into an even smaller box?? and feel even more upset if i don't reach those standards

Anonymous

#1 2w

and i think that's a pretty good analogy actually. foods can look different depending where it comes from or who makes it, but it can be something you still want/crave. ofc you can get/make specific recipes but pizza is pizza and a taco is a taco yk