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Trans Talk 4w
Born bi forced to stay forever alone because both lesbians and straight men be so evil randomly for no reason 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 4w

Realistically I could run up t4t but idk if I’m ever gonna reach a point where my dysphoria under control enough to realistically to be a good partner for a trans person

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Anonymous 3w

It’s crazy because you would think the ppl into women would be less evil since they’re into ppl weaker than them. The irony. Wtf.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But have you considered: maybe your future t4t partner wants to help you with your dysphoria and understands what you’re going through

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I mean yeah and that’s the healthy and reasonable mindset but at the same time I ain’t got no self confidence for that yet 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If I was you I wouldn’t seek out a specific cis or trans person, just go with who you love and if that person turns out to be trans go with it anyway. Follow your heart and you will be happy. I had these fears too at first but went with who I want and it all evened out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Everyone’s different though, my point is to not put yourself down so much because you deserve to be happy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I mean yeah I tried that and just ended up having a mental breakdown a bunch of times and destroying the relationship for myself 😭😭😭 I am at a point where I realize I should just work on myself but ig I just get to wait for the future

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then that makes sense too though, sorry that happened, Hopefully working on yourself will make you feel fulfilled/“happy” too! It is good to know your limits

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