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Okay this may be an unpopular opinion but I feel like people are starting to use the word “chaser” wrong. Chasers aren’t people who date you and try and get you to detransition. They date you BECAUSE you’re trans cuz they fetishize/objectify us 😭
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Anonymous 1w

Someone gets it! Someone once was like “erm, I’m trans and I’M a chaser. We exist” and I’m like no honey you’re not, that’s not how that works 😭

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve been called a chaser online before bc my gf is trans. I’m also trans. We’re t4t not chasers for each other wtf 😭😭

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Anonymous 1w

i feel like also ppl are too quick to say that preferences/turn ons are fetishes? like specifically with chasers, js cuz someone prefers trans ppl, doesn't necessarily mean they're a chaser. it feels like as a community we've lost the art of nuance and context

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 1w

I mean, they could have been a chaser it’s not impossible but I think they misunderstood what chaser means

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 1w

my ex was a horrid chaser and later transitioned so they sadly exist

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Anonymous replying to -> iam_spiderman 1w

I mean for the record chasers don’t just have a turn on for trans people, it’s that they really done have interest in us as people and are just obsessed with “trying a trans” and ultimately don’t see us as our gender either

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 1w

no yeah, i was js saying a lot of ppl call ppl chasers when they aren't

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