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Trans Talk 5w
I know I want top surgery but I’m scared I’m gonna miss my boobs. Cause I do really like them when I’m having sex or if I’m wearing women’s clothes but I hate them when I’m trying to pass
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Anonymous 5w

if you like them in a way i would honestly hold off on it until your 100% sure about it. you can always wear a binder when you want to pass and just cause you have breasts doesnt change anything about your identity. i would think about what your daily life is like are you masc 100% of the time or just some of the time. that will help you decide whether or not the surgery is worth it for you. i feel like sometimes people may feel pushed to get surgeries even w/o dysphoria just cause its whats …

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Anonymous 5w

Tape and tight tank tops underneath clothes help- but if you can’t tape I’d recommend a good sports bra without cups

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

expected but honestly its not a necessity to being trans but if your 100% sure you do want to remove them thats fine too. there are other ways to have breasts occasionally without having them look to see if those options are for you. at the end of the day its all up to you so try and reflect on it a bit more and maybe even discuss your feelings further with a therapist hope this helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

They don’t bother me 90% of the time because they’re small enough to be hidden in most of my regular clothes but they’re a problem in the summer mostly when I want to wear tank tops or be shirtless. I also can’t bind bc of medical reasons so I’m kinda stuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

have you tried tape im not sure if that may also harm you but it could be a good alternative just for now if not though try and find garments that hide the chest well while still being warm what i used to do was wear shirts more loose on the chest and used a sports bra or a tomboy x compression which wasnt too limiting for me i could even sleep in them but idk your whole situation so yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m gonna try out tape thanks

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