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i literally don’t want to be trans. i don’t want my life and career to be ruined by this. i wish i could live as my agab and be happy. i will never pass. what the actual FUCK am i even supposed to do.
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Anonymous 1w

Reallll. I'm like this but mtf. Trans people really don't like getting reminded that not everyone can pass and 90% of this is just genetics. Effort alone is not enough to magically make everyone pass.

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Anonymous 1w

i thought like this and then i got on t and hit the gym. either transition or don’t

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Anonymous 1w

why am i getting downvoted in my own comment section

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Anonymous 1w

why can’t you pass?

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Anonymous 1w

I get it, I can’t pass until my Adam’s apple is gone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i have the most feminine fucking face with big beautiful thick lips and a bigass beauty spot and doe eyes and round cheeks brah. and im 5’3

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

like if i had facial hair id look like a girl with facial hair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

and my head is so lumpy and female shaped i can’t get any kind of haircut that goes close to the skin

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

tysm for saying this i feel crazy sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you want some advice, get on hormones, it's better to be an approximation of what you want to be than nothing at all. And find a community who likes you. I have friends that find me cute and don't treat me like a man and it helps a lot mentally.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Weird response to someone who’s struggling

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

that’s an exaggeration for sure. if you stay on hrt for long enough you almost certainly will pass no matter how tall or short you are. you might be a little clocky, sure, but you’ll pass

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

T WILL FIX THAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

bro i’ve got all that shit down to the beauty spot and i’ve been passing consistently for years don’t drag yourself into a pit of “oh i shouldn’t come out because i’ll never pass” because you never see the trans people who do pass because you don’t fucking notice they’re trans. i promise it’s not as impossible as it seems

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I'm 6 foot 2, I have xxl hands, size 13 wide feet, 42 inch underbust, massive skull, permanent scarring from years of shaving across my face and neck. Some people are just screwed. No amount of hormones or surgery or money can make me pass.

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