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How do you not get defeated and depressed by everything that’s happening in this country. How is it even possible to keep up the will to fight
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Anonymous 1d

Listen to music, watch a show, take a bath. Disconnect from the world for a bit. Take a break

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Anonymous 1d

engage in your (local) community, it's the only thing that will save you. join your local dsa faction, see if there's queer events in your area, go to protests and actually talk to people. depression hates a moving target and being active in organizing is the only way to fight of nihilism. revolutionary optimism WILL save your life.

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Anonymous 2d

I know this isn’t specifically pertaining to transness, but I didn’t know where else to post where I wouldn’t end up in an argument with right wingers and where I could maybe get some genuine advice. I know the goal of all of this horrible shit storm is to demoralize those that might put up a fight and I hate so fucking dearly that it’s working on me

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Anonymous 1d

i've started working on what i can control (personal life & a bit of local politics). i don't think every member of every minority is obligated to be an activist, but the more the better for changing the nation.

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Anonymous 2d

go find the things they're not winning at. they overload everything with so much bad, and the good never gets told. half the things they claim they'll do or they'll try to do get shot down, but you never find out because they move on to trying to do something else. they want you overwhelmed and tired, they want this tactic to work

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Anonymous 1d

When you’re at this stage, it is necessary to completely unplug from the news for a time. You can’t fight when your nervous system is going haywire. We need you to take care of yourself, and connect with people locally who are on the same wavelength as you. Find ways to help each other and pool your resources so the system can’t squeeze you as hard. Contribute your strengths and rely on others to help with your weaknesses. It takes time and effort to build this kind of relationship but its worth

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Anonymous 1d

spite

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Anonymous 2d

Alcohol….

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I know their goal is to overwhelm and demoralize, but that knowledge only helped a bit initially. Since then I think my predisposition to fatigue and depression left me especially vulnerable to this sort of tactic. I’ll try to look for the good though, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

The only way ive been able to keep going is by relying on the things I enjoy to remind me that theres still some good things left. Complety cut out doomscrolling and go on walks. Enjoy nature. It sounds stupid but as someone w/ mdd it seriously helps

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Youre an empathetic person. We'll need u in the fight, but the only way youll be able to be there for it is if u stay alive. Theres no obligation for u to harm urself by watching the news constantly. U know shits bad, u dont need the gory details

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