someguymarshall on Sidechat | Soooo… realized that I’m not 100% a man, but more like… 85%? Changed my label to transmasc (maybe demiboy, still doing more research to see how accurate it is) and am also looking into androgynous names as well (in case Marshall ends up not working out).

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Trans Talk 18h

someguymarshall

Soooo… realized that I’m not 100% a man, but more like… 85%? Changed my label to transmasc (maybe demiboy, still doing more research to see how accurate it is) and am also looking into androgynous names as well (in case Marshall ends up not working out).

Anonymous 17h

there’s a shit ton of diversity among non-binary identities, demiboy could def be one, but my friend found out they were bi-gender recently (rather than a demigirl). and it’s not always a spectrum either, since some NBs want to be associated with gender (like gender-fluid people) while others don’t want anything to do with it (agender people). there’s probs even more out there, so I wish you luck 😭

Anonymous 14h

you can still call yourself a man btw!! not saying to, but don't feel like you have to have a different label or anything. (coming from a guy who IDs as a genderqueer man if i wanna be specific)

Anonymous

#1 17h

just remember that your only goal is to find other people to whom you relate. after that, you can try their labels & figure out if they work for you. same goes for your name: it might feel awkward to change it, but ik someone who changed her name 6 times, and another person with three active names. don’t be afraid of not liking smth :p and have fun on this journey :>

Anonymous

#2 14h

like i feel like im fully a man, even, and i relate closely to binary trans men over non binary people, but im also genderqueer. and it doesn't have to make sense to other people's rigid definitions of various gender shit

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Anonymous

#1 11h

That might also be a possibility for me tbh! I’ve been experiencing femininity with my gender for some time now but not as much as the maleness/masculinity I’ve been experiencing, hence why I’m mainly just sticking to considering myself transmasc right now :> thank you for the advice tho!!

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Anonymous

#2 11h

I can definitely see that, I’m content with calling myself a chick and a guy at once ^^

Anonymous

someguymarshall 10h

that's awesomeness!! i like calling myself a boygirl or a girlboy sometimes :P