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someone is recruiting for a band and the ad says afab only. why does genitalia matter for a band
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Anonymous 12w

every time i see ‘afab only’ i hope some bear 10+ years on t shows up

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Anonymous 12w

“AFAB only space” is always just code for transmisogyny. Every fucking time. To this day I have yet to find a single exception, they just want to hate transfems

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Anonymous 12w

Ngl this kinda seems like they only want cis women bc as a trans man I’d never sign up for an “afab only” group 😭

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Anonymous 11w

That says they also see all nonbinary people as their assigned sex too, yuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

not an exaggeration, this is quite literally what they want. afab only doesn't mean shit when it's someone they see as not a girl (trans guy) and it means everything when they see someone as not a girl (trans girl)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

found a new transition goal

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Politically correct bioessentialism fr

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