
Idk if you’ve got OCD but I have a similar fear. I’m ftm and gay and worry about fetishizing gay men/invading their spaces. I eventually realized that my identity within relationships isn’t as core to my being as my transness. Chasers don’t have gender euphoria, and if you’ve transitioned and don’t feel dysphoric (by being a masculine I mean) then you’re not doing it just for t4t. Theres also a lot of transbians who date cis women, so there’s that too. If you need anything my dm’s are open 💛