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So my bf and I have been together 6 years. Has always known me as a dude, been super supportive, never slipped up or anything. But like… he always gets to do me, but I never get to do him. Like I bought a packet and I never get to use it. Like if I had
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Anonymous 3d

A dick, I guess we just wouldn’t fuck? He says he’d suck it, but like I want to put my wiener in him 😭 and he doesn’t like to eat me out Don’t get me wrong I enjoy our sex it’s great but I just wish that I could do the fucking sometimes…

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Anonymous 3d

I’m thinking about seeing if he’d consider like an open relationship I guess? Where I can find a FWB to be in the masc role with? I mean we’ve talked about threesomes so I know he’s at least open to that

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Anonymous 3d

have u actually communicated this to him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Yea he had to go to hospital as a kid and they shoved something up his but so he’s really weird about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Ok so that's like... really understandable as a reason to not want to bottom. Obviously that sucks for you, I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings, but before you try to open your relationship, think about whether topping in sex is important enough to you to risk your relationship, since trying to open relationships can go badly.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

ok him not liking eating your out is a skill issue on his part, eating out is like... amazing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

He says it’s the smell? He does it sometimes but it’s really rare and I can’t even really enjoy it cause I can tell he is holding his breath and then moving away to breathe. Even if I like JUST showered he says it smells funny. Not necessarily bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

maybe y’all could do intercrural? like fuck his thighs with your strap, so no penetration but also you get to do some fucking. also recommend trying out wearing the strap when you’re bottoming and/or having him do oral on the strap instead of eating you out. psychologically those can be super fulfilling/pleasurable, and depending on the type of strap, stimulating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

He’s done oral on the strap before and I kinda liked it! It was a little weird but maybe just cause not used to it. I hadn’t thought about like using his thighs! I’ll bring that up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Maybe you have bv? Get that checked maybe

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I have been to the gyno and she said alls good. He says it doesn’t like stink or smell bad it just has a smell. Like his crotch smells when I go down on him, not bad or stinky but it has a smell if that makes sense?

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