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Trans Talk 13w
Pierced my ears and now i’m getting they/themmed all the fucking time gdi
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Anonymous 13w

is this /pos or /neg?

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Anonymous 13w

Ok which piercings bc I WISH I was getting they/them med and I am considering getting more piercings, I just have the basic earlobe piercings.

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Anonymous 13w

what gender are you? cause if you’re looking to get he/himmed I have advice as a t guy with pierced ears

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Anonymous 13w

these are some earrings I wear that tend to read as more “stylish man with earrings” than “woman”. Def experiment with different styles and find stuff that looks good on you and make you feel confident tho!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

I’d like that advice please 🙋‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

im a tguy who had been putting off getting my ears pierced for this reason but finally bit the bullet because I was sick of trans ppl thinking i was cis lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Wait so you pass well enough to be mistaken as cis by trans people but cis people are they/them ing you because of fuckin pierced ears????? I’m so confused dawg how is that possible…..

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

basically I just get like geometric metal earrings they tend to read more masculine (although ofc you don’t owe anyone masculinity) I can send pics of examples that I have

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Thank you so much for the examples and explanation! I’ll definitely try something like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

No prob!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

yeah i don’t fucking get it either lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

thx bruv

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

that’s all i’ve got, just simple gold studs like what

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