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Trans Talk 1d
Question, idk if I’m trans but I wanna be fem and masc amab
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Anonymous 1d

what's the question

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Anonymous 1d

how do you feel about being seen as a man and he/him pronouns? that's honestly most beneficial to think about initially. what pronouns make you happy, upset, neutral, and what perception makes you happy, upset, neutral

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Anonymous 1d

as a transsexual man (in the sense im just strictly a man, and have been medically transitioning for years now), i've always considered anyone who doesn't necessarily align with their agab (even afab fem enby people, amab masc enby people), as trans- nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella. and you can also be enby without a specific label- you can just be YOU- every gender, no gender, doesnt matter, yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Idk what I am

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You could be nonbinary or genderfluid. at the end of the day, present however you want, and worry about the label later

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

seconding what #1 said—sometimes it’s a slow process figuring out what language best suits you, but you’re welcome here regardless (also, while it’s a slightly less well-known label, you could potentially be bigender too? personally, I was elated to realize it was possible for me to be a woman And a man 👯)

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