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No offense but I think the “it’s actually quite difficult to pass” conversations aren’t exactly productive especially when a lot of people here get dysphoria from that stuff very easily😭 I dont really think its helpful and Ive heard opposing opinions too
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Anonymous 1w

I mean I feel like the most annoying/least productive people trying to have this conversation the most are people who haven’t started their transition yet. Like damn bitch calm down it’s not over for you you never even started 😭

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah we need to learn how to cope with never passing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

youll get there it takes time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

the notion that most trans people never pass w/o surgery is completely false ftr

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

“You’ll get there it takes time” Not without surgery or somehow putting on 50lbs this lump on my neck is large.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

scarf or convex choker

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 1w

Yea lowkey it very much sounds like dysphoric anxiety to me ngl😭 Like I felt like that at the beginning for sure but the longer I’m on hrt the less I feel like that. I still haven’t fully overcome it but like. I’m aware it’s probably not a logical feeling and instead it’s just anxiety driven by dysphoria.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Yea like. I’ve actually heard rhetorical exact opposite message before ngl😭 Like what I’ve heard before is that most people end up passing. It’s just a combination of survivorship bias + overly focusing on people early in their transition that makes us believe otherwise. Like yea I know the feeling these people are talking about but I’m able to take a step back and realize it’s probably not true and it’s just the anxiety and dysphoria talking.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

“*literally the” Idk how on earth it corrected to “rhetorical”

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