Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
The eternal ftm struggle (especially pre t) knowing any cis guy I think is cute will only see me as a girl (I’ve given up on finding love 🥀)
upvote 27 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 5d

The only people into me ever were -someone who knew me as a girl first -someone who fetishized me -someone who thought I was a lesbian at first I graduate this school next year and it’s *supposed* to be a queer friendly place but nobody sees trans men as men unless they’re macho and perfect. Nobody sees ME.

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5d

My partner is a cis man who loves me for who I am and I am not on T. It can be done. He calls me strong, handsome, calls our relationship a gay one, etc. I will say that it helps that I'm pretty masc, but still there are good people out there either way. Be patient, stay off dating apps, be kind, and love will come your way. And try your best not to be superficial. Look for someone who loves you, not for what they can give you.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Oh sweetie I'm sorry, there will be people who see you, the world is just a shitty place, but it is possible to find love

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

If I can’t find someone at this woke school I doubt it’ll happen anywhere Especially pre T

upvote 3 downvote