
The only people into me ever were -someone who knew me as a girl first -someone who fetishized me -someone who thought I was a lesbian at first I graduate this school next year and it’s *supposed* to be a queer friendly place but nobody sees trans men as men unless they’re macho and perfect. Nobody sees ME.
My partner is a cis man who loves me for who I am and I am not on T. It can be done. He calls me strong, handsome, calls our relationship a gay one, etc. I will say that it helps that I'm pretty masc, but still there are good people out there either way. Be patient, stay off dating apps, be kind, and love will come your way. And try your best not to be superficial. Look for someone who loves you, not for what they can give you.