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It really feels like most people are penissexual, even if they claim otherwise. It’s really disheartening as a trans man. And yes I do want bottom surgery but it’s still very expensive and I’d rather just have been born with the right genitals
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Anonymous 14h

coming from an nb tfem, I’ve seen this more often than I’d have expected 😭 I’ve had at least three people who said/clearly implied they wouldn’t be into me if I had different parts. it’s insane

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

this is generally why I stick with bi/pan people since ime they’re less prone to be like… that. I’m t4t and still go by that rule unless they’re really chill

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Even within some t4t circles I see a lot of this dick obsession. It’s baffling to me since I’m not particularly fond of penises anyway, it’s just a body part? I wonder where it comes from

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

my last person was an it/she biro grayace lesbian who, later on in our relationship, told me it wouldn’t be into me if I didn’t have a dick… I didn’t want to have sex with her, but this still mattered 😭 idk I don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

That’s really weird 😭😭😭 it doesn’t make any sense either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

exactly 😭

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