Trans Talk on Sidechat | I love that people are finally using they/them pronouns for nonbinary folks but as a nonbinary person I wish people would stop using only they/them pronouns for me when my pronouns are she/they.

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Trans Talk 17h

I love that people are finally using they/them pronouns for nonbinary folks but as a nonbinary person I wish people would stop using only they/them pronouns for me when my pronouns are she/they.

Anonymous 3h

Degendering is still misgendering.

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Anonymous 17h

People are using pay them for non-binary people where you are fucking lucky everyone refuses to use them for me. They either use he or she.

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Anonymous 12h

i love referring to people who use multiple sets of pronouns so i can just switch up mid sentence and confuse the hell out of people

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Anonymous 16h

That’s just ridiculous lol. The real way how she/they pronouns work are that people are supposed to use she/her pronouns for you first before using they/them. Even when I only used she/her pronouns, people would only use they/them for me which is still misgendering. It’s annoying as fuck

Anonymous

OP 13h

people are SUPPOSED to use the first one you list more, but they dont. they choose the one closest to how they perceive you, so if you wanna metagame their misgendering to use the pronouns you want youve gotta say something you dont necessarily want

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Anonymous

#3 12h

unless they have a preference then i use that obviously

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Anonymous

#2 3h

Or you could just work on being a decent person, yeah?

Anonymous

#4 2h

Yep.