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Trans Talk 11w
So I’m pretty passable and don’t usually put the trans flag in like my name on socials just cause I’m used to putting my username and that’s it. My brother (ftm) thinks it’s a little weird and misleading since I am a passable trans woman. Is this weird?
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Anonymous 11w

he’s the one being weird tbh

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Anonymous 11w

no it's fine

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Anonymous 11w

that’s called being stealth, which tons of trans people do

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Anonymous 11w

Nah it’s fine

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Anonymous 11w

your little brothers a fucking weirdo

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Anonymous 11w

Be trans however you want to be and be vocal about it however you want to be. There are no rules to this shit. Just do what makes you happy and don’t hurt others

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Anonymous 11w

weird of him, not you

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Anonymous 11w

You’re not required to have a trans flag on your socials

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Anonymous 11w

I mean as long as ur not actively hiding it ur chill 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

it’s not even necessarily being stealth, it’s just not putting trans flag on your profile.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Right like I still post about being trans and don’t like hide it it’s just not like what I’m leading with

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

true it’s not even to that extent, so idk why OP’s brother has an issue with such a small thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

We shouldn't have to wear a "hi I am trans" label for all the world to see and your brother thinking so is dangerously naive

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

This is like the heart of how I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It's totally fine to want to pass and be stealth. Normal, even, especially in this political climate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

depends on the reason but a lot of people have good reasons to hide it. if you’re hiding it bc you don’t want to be associated with other trans people then that’s problematic, but lots of people do it for safety and to avoid discrimination in public or the workplace

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Oh yeah no I get that I mean like if person u are close to and u know would be chill asks would u still hide it when asked

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

People don’t have a right to that information. Knowing I’m trans is a privilege. Tell any sexual partners and people you want to tell. No one else needs the information

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