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Trans Talk 20h
essentially perma boymoding for the indefinite future anyone have any advice on how to make that even slightly bearable
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Anonymous 20h

wear tights and/or bras under clothes. get more accessories like bracelets, rings, and necklaces. find some fits you can wear in private, and take pics or just remember it so you have smth to balance out the boymoding. also, if you don’t have this already, find at least one friend who calls you by your name/pronouns, if you have that figured out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Also you can start voice training if you have a private enough space to do it. Cause like you can just turn that off and on when you need to yk. Also very much seconded on all of that. Once I had people calling me by my new name and pronouns in private lord that helped me so much to feel better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Oh also you can start to grow out your hair since men do that too! Looking up how to take care of it and stuffs as well yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

i have actually already started on that one! i cut it short last year but it felt wrong, didn't realize it then. it just doesn't feel feminine enough even now. looking into different hair styles

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Yeah layers feminize a lot of

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