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Trans Talk 5w
so now i’m rooming with a catholic woman who for whatever reason chose a gender-inclusive dorm!
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OP of this post, i promised myself i wouldn’t have to advocate for anyone but at least once a month i have to advocate for myself whether that be trans related or unrelated. this sucks i wish i wasn’t physically nor mentally ill (undiagnosed disorders)
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Anonymous 5w

catholic doesn’t automatically equal trans hating. hell my bestie is a trans guy and a catholic

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Anonymous 5w

I mean Catholicism is theologically pro trans right now so might be chill as long as she knows ball 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 5w

Best of luck, ironically the only catholics i know irl are either trans or were the most accepting people when i came out so..good luck??? none of them had any queer supportive stuff on their socials fwiw

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Anonymous 5w

chat is she cooked? comment down below

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Anonymous 4w

Is it possible she is not cis? She could just appear cis, and not be willing to talk about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i checked her ig and there’s no signs of general lgbtq+ friendliness. so either she’s cishet and accepting or it’s the exact opposite. i used to be catholic so i know the demographic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

it IS but the demographic generally isn’t. i still maintain catholic beliefs so i get said ball. but i am hoping for the best, and if i still believed in Him id pray as well 🤭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

yeah my friend’s catholic and she’s a lesbian. an acquaintance is a femboy. my sister’s bisexual but i’d imagine that there’s be signs 🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

are there any signs of being anti-lgbt tho? i know catholics who are still lgbt and trans accepting so i wouldn’t be too quick to judge, especially if she explicitly chose the gender inclusive option

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

not particularly but i’m still kind of disheartened. just generally bad experiences outweigh the good especially during these times and i’ll admit i haven’t had the best housing experience these past few months as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i would say it’s not a bad idea to have a back up escape plan to get out of that situation in case things are bad but also don’t necessarily go into it expecting to have to use it

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