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I remember being early in my transition just starting college how awful it was. Whenever there was group work everyone just turned away from me. Years later I see my students doing the same thing to other young trans girls
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Anonymous 20h

Is there any way to prevent this or is the only option just to power through it until you pass enough?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

pretty much this or be super social and bubbly to a really exhausting degree. you kind of have to be the person who says “can i join your group” or whatever. also trying to schedule classes with people i’m already friends with has helped. then we can start a group and i think that makes it less scary for the cis mob to look at you like a person. cause one of them already does and is chatting with you. idk just my experience ig

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Anonymous replying to -> billcipher 8h

My clothes don’t always clearly communicate that I’m trying to be feminine and my voice is deep so I’m worried about seeming creepy to women who don’t know I’m not a man do you have any thoughts on that

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