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Nothing makes my blood boil more then when a trans woman fully transitions/passes then suddenly starts acting like she’s better then other trans women who either haven’t got surgeries or don’t pass as well 😔.
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Anonymous 4w

it’s definitely beyond shitty behavior but i can sympathize with why they do it. you see yourself as finally through and Done with it, but that long long period of self loathing never really goes away. it morphs into an almost phobia of people who are where you used to be, where your internal hatred of your past self projects outwards to distance and socially protect yourself. i’ve felt it a couple times, and i am thankful that i figured out it was my own past pain and not smth rational

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

honestly all of passing culture is a nightmare. some of those who pass separate themselves and put down others to hide behind superiority, while some who don’t pass feel envy and often justified betrayal but end up just as vitriolic in the end. endless cycle 🥲

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