Trans Talk on Sidechat | I told my friend I think I’m a trans girl. And he helped me wear make up & do my hair in support. Then he asked me to please to go down on him, so I did. It was my first time ever doing something like that. Why do I feel so freaked out over it? 😓

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Trans Talk 32w

I told my friend I think I’m a trans girl. And he helped me wear make up & do my hair in support. Then he asked me to please to go down on him, so I did. It was my first time ever doing something like that. Why do I feel so freaked out over it? 😓

Anonymous 32w

Cause it sounds like he helped affirm you for the purpose of getting sexual favors

Anonymous

#1 32w

Helped affirm? Wait what do you mean?

Anonymous

OP 32w

helped affirm your gender like helping you with your hair and makeup but then afterwards makes it so you’re sexually benefitting him, making the interaction transactional instead of sweet and affirming

Anonymous

#2 32w

Oh I never thought of it that way 😓

Anonymous

OP 32w

you deserve to be validated without it turning into a “i scratch your back and you scratch mine” scenario. you should feel appreciated without being sexualized afterwards

Anonymous

#2 32w

Thank you for that, I’d love to talk more about this if you’d wanna dm me. I just have questions now 😓