
multiple transphobic members of my family accidentally used she/her pronouns when talking about me after i grew my hair out and started hrt without telling them it was really satisfying, because another one would then correct the other “like you mean he?” “oh yea anyways he…” when i came out they WERE NOT ok with it and some even had the audacity to say “tTErE WerE nO sIgNs” yea because 5 years old me telling you “I’m not a boy” at church was too subtle
Listen, sometimes you have the energy (I once 100% clocked another trans girl like 2 years before she came out (she did know she was trans though, just wasn't out) while she was 100% boymoding, not even on hormones, based PURELY on vibes. I only found out when she came out and was like "yeah i've known for 5 years" and I was like I WAS RIGHT)