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i have a question for my trans sisters. when did you realize you were trans and how did you go about it? i’ve been questioning my gender recently and im worried with no one really i feel comfortable talking to.
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Anonymous 1d

i first realised it by hearing about it and seeing how what trans women said resonated with me. i was about 10. unfortunately my parents found out and shut that down and i kinda forgot (or maybe repressed) for like 4 years. once i was 14 i heard somebody say something transphobic and it ruined my day way more than it would for any cis person. i rediscovered my transness a few days later.

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Anonymous 1d

There wasn’t necessarily one particular moment, it was moreso a series of events that built up until the dam broke Never really fit in with groups of guys at all, and also never felt even any comfort in the social roles expected of men. There were also a lot of things that, in retrospect, should have been signs. I felt very envious towards lesbians and wanted to be one, felt that men’s clothing sucked and I was always grossed out wearing suits, and other things

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Anonymous 3h

Figured out at 14 after shortly after meeting and befriending a trans/queer person for the first time. My family isnt accepting however. I socially transitioned shortly after and started medically at 19

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It took a friend of mine finally guiding me gently for me to fully come to terms with it, which thankfully lessened the impact of when it all clicked into place at least a little bit. The shock still felt like being hit by a truck going full speed, but at least this truck had a pillow on the front. It’s a lot to take in and can be extremely overwhelming at first

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

that’s really beautiful that you rediscovered your trans identity because a similar thing happened when i was younger with kaitlyn jenner. i remember being curious about her but apparently i was obsessive about her to my mom and it’s been consistent with other transfem stories. so thank you <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

they’re a really good friend for helping you come to terms with your new identity so gently and i genuinely find that so beautiful!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

thank you so much. this really helped! :)

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