also: ofc as a they/them i will almost always be misgendered but i at LEAST want to be seen as male if i had to choose… 90% of people default to she/her for me 😔

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There’s a lot that goes into passing that may not be represented in a photo, especially since your face is blocked out. Face, voice (pitch, intonation, etc.), mannerisms, hair (we can’t really see it all that well, especially how it interacts with your face), and chest (looks fine from the front in this photo, but could be different irl?) could all contribute here

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