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Now that I’ve come to terms with the fact I am a guy, my own voice and skin are starting to bother me more than I thought it would
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Anonymous 4w

felt, i always kinda hated my own speaking voice and then when i came out i additionally felt lowkey emasculated by the sound of it 💀 (not that i consciously subscribe to flimsy essentialist binary gendering of traits like that, but insecurity is often an irrational thing)

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Anonymous 4w

Yeah a bit of a warning you’re prob becoming more and more aware of, but after the egg cracks, the dam that’s been holding back all the dysphoria for years breaks open and suddenly there’s gonna be a billion things that bother you. But it gets better, dw

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

the silver lining is that a few years into T my voice sounds much more like “myself”, it’s a huge relief

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