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Trans Talk 14h
calling myself a lesbian over and over again because if you tell a lie a thousand times it becomes the truth and i don't want to be straight.
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Anonymous 13h

Nothing wrong with being straight 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 7h

Its one thing to have comphet and get over this but this feels like when girls come up to me and go "ugh i wish i was a lesbian". Lesbians can still be chasers, lesbians can still be abusers, lesbians can be manipulative and terrible in all the same ways men can be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

safety. safety is what's wrong. i don't trust myself to find a good partner, and men are so much more likely to be awful.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

and to assume that cuz theyre lesbians theyre safe is not only misogynistic but dangerous. Got me abused multiple times

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3h

you've probably seen the data. lesbians are the most likely group to be pro-trans while straight men are the least. men commit over 90% of violent crime. i would much rather have a supportive partner who would be less likely to hurt me over a less supportive partner more likely to hurt me. i don't trust myself to get it right every time, so based on the data being lesbian is just the safer option.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

lowk if i do give in and date a man i deserve whatever he does to me because i knew it would happen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2m

I understand your fear, but there are also so, so many good men out there. It would also not be fair to your partner if you dated a woman but you’re not actually attracted to women

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