Anonymous #1 7w

Well, I’m currently a cishet male, hence my confusion. But I’ve always been drawn to sapphic media, and my Hinge profile has decided to show me exclusively bisexual or lesbian women as matches lol.

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Anonymous OP 7w

I get that presently you identify as a cishet man, and respecting personal autonomy & self-determinism is important to me so fwiw I’m def not here to try and convince you in either direction 🫡 the reason I ask is that I was once a kid who found a lot of trans men to be particularly cool & attractive, and part of what helped me figure out that I *am* a trans man is the indescribable feeling I got when I thought about gay relationships between trans guys

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Anonymous OP 7w

bc it wasn’t just that the thought made me horny lol, and words like “envy” or “jealousy” would feel a bit reductive too. but I also wasn’t latching on to some kind of idealized fantasy about how a relationship between two trans men must innately be more intimate, healthy or glamorous than any other relationship configuration, either I just… yearned. and personally, examining that reaction was a necessary step towards realizing that I’m trans

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