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I love being non-binary & being in non-binary spaces but it really really sucks how often people are forced to use ASAB language to talk about certain experiences. it’s either tmasc/tfem or ASAB and you get nothing else 😭 I wish we had more words for it
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Anonymous 8w

Fr! I avoid asab language because all roads just end up leading to bio-essentialism.

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Anonymous 8w

yeah it must be really hard to articulate your experiences if youre intersex

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Anonymous 7w

i like to say i was perceived as a girl. i don't know if i ever actually was a girl, and even if i was i was a really bad example of one, but it takes the pressure off me to say what i was and more what i was to other people.

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