
My husband uses the f-slur in the way someone used the word motherfucker, like if a cabinet door is in his way, it’s getting called names, or if his dog has run off into the words for the twelfth time this week and it’s only Monday, that dog is getting called a million and half names, but he doesn’t use the t-slur unless someone else starts an argument and calls him that and even then it’s him being like “yeah I am, and?” Kinda way if that makes sense?