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I just want my first kiss to feel special and but being a trans girl who’s into guys makes me feel like that’ll be impossible
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Anonymous 1d

Advice to achieve this: 1) don't go for old friends, high risk, generally more than the reward. 2) any place where the goal is immediate dating (dating apps, speed dating, etc.) will also make this difficult as it kinda speeds you into the process and it might feel too fast 3) basically new friends are the sweet spot, where the new budding friendship could turn into more 4) beware of confidence, someone that is super confident in themselves and about this generally puts less meaning into it

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Anonymous replying to -> silvy 1d

4 cont) a bit of nervousness and being able to see vulnerability is good, there's more trust and connection there

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Anonymous replying to -> silvy 1d

5) queer men are usually better but it's not always a rule, don't be too trusting just because someone is queer (I say as a girl that has dated multiple shitty queer guys) 6) at the end of the day it's just a kiss, you can always pretend like it didn't happen if it's bad or the person turns out to be shitty, try not to stress yourself out too much over finding the perfect moment

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Anonymous replying to -> silvy 13h

Thanks for the advice! :) It’s really helpful! :)

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