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gipsum

MY FACIAL FEM SURGERY IS ON THE 25TH DOES ANYONE HAVE ADVICE
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Anonymous 7w

Prep your living space in advance, keep ice packs and pain meds nearby, get more used to sleeping on your back if you’re not already, DO NOT PICK AT THE STITCHES, and be very, very gentle when washing you’re hair and face.

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Anonymous 7w

Incredibly jealous but also hell yeah!

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Anonymous 7w

You may feel suicidal. Remember that you will feel normal again after a few days and that all will come to pass

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Anonymous 7w

Congratulations!! I wish you good healing

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Anonymous 7w

Go get ya bag twin 😛

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Anonymous 7w

Always ask if you can keep the bones, they make great weird gifts if you’re into giving weird gifts like that

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Anonymous 7w

Play Minecraft music with rain ambiance to help you fall asleep, worked on me for my reduction surgery

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Anonymous 7w

haven't gotten ffs but have gotten other surgery, and my main tip is to stay ON TOP of your pain meds. you may be like actually this isn't that bad i don't need to take my meds and turns out, once you stop taking them, you realize why you were. i only discontinued one of mine bc it was making me really sleepy and i was like weird why do i have a sudden new pain.... and then i realized

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Anonymous 7w

i got top surgery 4 days ago and just make sure u have activities that u can do in bed that dont require much moving. im about to zentangle but i also have minecraft as an option

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Also, you’re going to heal more top-down, so if you’re getting any chin/jaw work done, don’t worry about it seemingly taking longer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Ahhhh that’s good to know I just got a wedge pillow set for sleeping upright and I’m so worried about healing weird 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Omg I should give it to my girlfriend as an anniversary present 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Ough that’s good to know thank you ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 7w

Brilliant 🔥

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Fuck fr?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

also idk much about ffs but i have to have drains in my arms and if u need anything like that know that it might hurt really badly but keep reminding urself its all worth it, this is literally what you want and what you signed up for and its going to be amazing before you know it. congratulations!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Yes. One does not know how truly awful it is to have to your face ripped off and sewn back into place until it’s done. I don’t say this to scare anyone, I say this so if you get those horrible thoughts which are so so common, you are prepared and know that it’s normal and that so many of us have made it through okay on the other side. FFS is a very bad surgery recovery, I could do nothing but silently cry for about the first 24 hours… but you make it through it 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

FFS very typically has drains, it’s standard of care

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

well know that my drains hurt so bad im getting them out on wednesday and one caused a bruise on my elbow for some reason and i keep having to just say "this is what i wanted and soon my life is going to be better than its ever been" over and over until the advil kicks in

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Huh ive never heard of that. My roomie didn’t have it when she got ffs earlier this month and my doctor mentioned nothing about drains either

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 7w

they werent a big point of conversation before i had surgery, only briefly mentioned. but again i got top surgery not ffs so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

"isn't that bad" is of course relative, but one thing about pain is it will always find a way to get worse. don't give it the chance! good luck and congratulations! so happy for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Thank you pookie 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 7w

Yeah, I didn’t have drains for either of my facial surgeries.

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 7w

They improve outcomes, there is a lot of literature on it. Not from an aesthetic perspective, but a healing one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

So I’m recovering now and yeah this did endup happening. I’m very fortunate to have a team of people caring for me 24/7 or else I’d be fucked 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 6w

Life will be normal soon girl. Hang in there

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 6w

You might be surprised at how quickly you find a new normal when the worst of the swelling goes down! Took me about two weeks before I looked still puffy, but closer to where I am now. The worst of the visuals don’t last long. You’ll just be very sensitive still. 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

hey btw after i got the drains removed (only had to have them for 8 days, im now 17 days post op) my quality of life went way up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

They didn’t end up putting any drains in me!

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 5w

Drains aren’t as common for FFS and usually are removed the first or second day after surgery if they are used at all. :)

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