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I will never pass :( I wish people could just read my mind and know that I’m not a girl despite liking dressing fem
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Anonymous 13h

are you on t? that might help.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8h

No, and I don’t want to be more masc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I’m on E btw. Nb

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I like being fem but not a girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Or a boy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I struggle with this too, there are a few gender neutral/masc accessories or stylings that might make people at least pause & ask for pronouns w/o changing your presentation as a whole

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

unfort it’s hard even with those touches, so having a non-binary pin on you or your stuff is probs the most reliable way.. it’s hard to “pass as androgynous” in general, and doing so with a leaning expression makes it hard, though again the touches help. also, an androgynous voice does help more than you’d think if you’re willing to voice train

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

for reference, I’ve been aiming for a voice like my transmasc friend, and I think it’s getting results. though I don’t dress exclusively fem anymore, so YMMV

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