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Trans Talk 1d
Uh help i think im a trans girl what do i do now
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Anonymous 1d

do what you can to transition. safety first of course. try to figure out if anyone you rely on (especially parents) are accepting and how much transitioning you can do rn. the earlier the better but there's no shame in waiting until it's safe

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Anonymous 22h

Btw Spencer’s sells trans tape and tucking underwear, you could also order stuff from Janet’s closet, it’s a store for trans women

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Anonymous 1d

honestly if i could do it all over again i’d say wait for a bit before medically transitioning just so you are sure because you have to be consistent. and also experiment with clothes and makeup

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Anonymous 20h

Take your time figuring out how you like to express yourself, without the pressure to be a certain way, and see if there are any safe people around you that you could come out to (but don’t come out before you feel ready ofc). Welcome to the community girly <3

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Anonymous 16h

me too girl me too

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Anonymous 13h

Do not get on estrogen immediately, start with androgen blockers for a while

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

i do just monotherapy e and i've had 0 issues.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

That’s great, but starting it immediately when realizing can be a bit much tbh. Also blockers will help with facial hair and other stuff (I don’t feel like explaining but I encourage the OP to do their own research on it). But please don’t diy I BEG you 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

i also do diy and have had no issues. if you're still on your parents' insurance it's definitely the best option. of course do your research, but it's not nearly as risky as it sounds

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Anyone doing diy should have a basic understanding of the human body and endocrine system too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

yeah. it's worth the effort learning so you can have the control to make it cheaper & easier to hide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Also then it is MUCH less risky when you understand what’s going on

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