yeah & I tell them not to because it makes me uncomfortable, regardless of their intent

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i dont mind girl as in “go piss girl” as much as i despiseeee all the actually infantilizing shit that trans men get called

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sometimes but usually i only get it from other tboys, or people at work where i’m closeted, so i don’t really mind it as much. i don’t think it’s too much to ask people to stop tho? like i love calling people “dawg, man, brother” but i won’t do that for transfems or people who tell me not to, it’s not hard

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I’m nonbinary but feel the same way. I’m tired of my friends calling it “girls night” or “girls trip” or stuff like that.

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Yeah :( and even if i dont feel dysphoric i just feel weird because i never liked it, even outside of trans contexts

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I’ve been trying so hard to work this out of my language as like my instinctual go to so hard because I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable 😭

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i do sometimes, but then they call cis guys "girl" too and i'm reminded that they say it in a rupaul's drag race kinda way not in a sorority girl kinda way and the feeling does away with

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