Queer ppl they/them me all the time and I’m a hyperfemme trans woman, those are not the pronouns I use and it’s misgendering frfr you’re not crazy for that and I hate how ‘assume they/them just in case’ turned into ‘everyone uses they/them if I want them to’

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this is about one specific person who’s like more my best friend’s friend than my friend really, but it’s really been bugging me because he’s like a super feminine gay dude, but for whatever reason whenever i’m around him he is always just using they/them and i feel weird correcting him because i’ve just never felt super comfortable correcting misgenderings but it feels weirder to do when it’s they/them im correcting someone on because in my head it shouldn’t bug me that bad

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