Anonymous #1 14w

ah yeah kinda i just dont know what to do as a whole. like im ftm, either i date closeted or go as male and hope my family doesnt find out

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Anonymous #3 14w

cut my hair in like 8th grade and wear tshirts and cargo shorts. i look pretty masculine i just havent come out to my family

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Anonymous OP 14w

so that is Not what passing means...

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Anonymous #3 14w

yeah it is lol when i go in public i pass as male

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Anonymous OP 14w

oh you mean boymoding, I was confused too

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Anonymous #4 14w

nope im ftm. boymoding is for mtf

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Anonymous OP 14w

wait bruh how are you passing and closeted 😭

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He did specify, look at his previous comments

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Anonymous #1 14w

he specified that he passed as a man but he didn’t specify that he was closeted just to family. I guess you could also transition fully without coming out to anyone, I’ve just never heard of it

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Anonymous #4 14w

“I’m ftm”

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Anonymous #1 14w

how’s that related to him being closeted

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Anonymous #4 14w

Did you read the full comment ?? It literally says “I either date CLOSETED”😟

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Anonymous #1 14w

im not on hrt and i havent had surgery yet if thats the confusing part. im a trans guy that looks male, but still closeted. like my mom uses she/her and my deadbame bc i havent told her

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Anonymous #1 14w

chill, he didn’t specify who he was closeted to, so #3 and I thought he was closeted to everyone and somehow transitioned. two different people were confused, can you not act like we can’t read lmao

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Anonymous #4 14w

Yall clearly can’t 🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous OP 14w

i was just confused abt how you were closeted to everyone and fully transitioned, but you clarified and said you were just closeted to parents. that makes a lot more sense and is more common, so everything’s cleared up. thanks OP!

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Anonymous #1 14w

boooooo stop making problems when there aren’t any. two people were confused and you start insulting both of us. it’s not that serious and OP just cleared it up. now you’re just being a prick.

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Anonymous #4 14w

passing doesnt have to do with being closeted tho? like you can be closeted yet passing or uncloseted and passing. passing is just about how you look

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Anonymous OP 14w

yeah but if you suddenly start passing as the opposite gender, people you interact with daily are gonna ask abt it. you’re not closeted to your friends, right? that’s where the confusion came from

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Anonymous #4 14w

when i was little i was dubbed a tomboy despite being in dresses ig it was in my personality. when i cut my hair in middle school i was out to some friends, but lost contact in high school. from there i just never came out to anyone lol. ig it wasnt like one day girl next day boy, its really just been a haircut

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Anonymous OP 14w

ok damn, that’s kind of impressive.

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Anonymous #4 14w

yeah most people do not pass pre-everything which was the source of my confusion

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