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sometimes when i get suicidal thoughts i imagine a gravestone with my deadname on it. it's a very moving image that motivates me to keep going.

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Anonymous 2w

I’m not the only one 😭 I would rather be alive than be remembered as my deadname

Anonymous 2w

my best friend died recently and his biological family was the one that handled the funeral. the first time i learned their deadname was the in memory page. it's an awful violation and i refuse to remember him as anything other than who he actually was

Anonymous 2w

Me too!

Anonymous 2w

I think about this a lot but it’s to the point it doesn’t seem as much of a detriment anymore

Anonymous

#3 2w

oh dear god. that's awful. i have no words.

Anonymous

OP 2w

it made me nauseous and lightheaded with anger when i saw it. he blossomed into himself with transition, and to have that erased, by the people he chose actively to leave behind, the people that rejected them, was sickening. i had to leave the building when his mom started talking.