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Questioning mtf here. For those of you who knew for certain they were F, how long did you know and how were you feeling? I feel as if I want to transition (for the last year)but I also have a mimic personality type so I’m unsure how valid my feelings are
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Anonymous 5w

A lot of girls aren’t certain until they actually start transitioning tbh

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Anonymous 5w

not mtf but agender afab, heres how i figured it out; imagine your life as a woman(can be any gender youre wondering about too), down to every detail, then imagine your life as it is now. plan a full day as both. maybe even exactly the same but just with a different body. do you feel happier imagining your life as a woman, or as you are now? if you are happier, there’s your answer. only you can tell love :) <3 you got this sweetheart, lifes a journey, enjoy it!!

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Anonymous 5w

And my parents keep bringing this up to try and invalidate me which just throws me off more

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Anonymous 5w

What’s been helping me has been trying to take the gender out of things. I try to just pick what I’ll be comfortable in, do that, and decide why it made me feel that way later. I’m maybe ftm? Still questioning, and would be so down to dm and chat if you’d like.

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Anonymous 5w

I mean I knew I wanted to be a girl p young but didn’t realize I was trans till I was 18 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 5w

You are trans, my girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What was it that clicked for you that you were indeed trans tho? And not just “oh yeah it’d be cool to be a woman”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Was that how it was for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

One of my friends came out to me during a dysphoria induced mental breakdown and I had to panic learn what dysphoria was to try to help them and slowly over like a month or so realized that wanting to be a girl 24/7 wasn’t normal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I am ftm full disclosure I was speaking from what a few of my trans girl friends experienced. But I do find myself uncertain with a lot of parts of my transition until I actually start doing it and find myself happier

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Try to ignore what all of the people say you should feel about xyz and focus on how you feel, and that’s much easier said than done. You can also use Snapchat filters (i like the ones that give me facial hair and a jawline that doesn’t stop) and see how you feel in them

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