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ik ppl often say this in a lateral microagression type way, and i don’t mean it like that, but after prolonged interpersonal contact… there really is a difference btwn trans ppl that want to be seen as *men* and those who want to be seen as *trans men*
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Anonymous 7w

happy for my brothers, but damn, our experiences are different lol

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Anonymous 7w

as one of those types of people, i find it very awkward to interact with the other type. the personality differences can be so stark lol

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Anonymous 7w

this is not about being “stealth” or “feminine” or “less of a man.” it’s about how people differently conceptualize their gender. if you don’t know what i’m talking about, that’s fine, but don’t project your own baggage onto it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i’m genuinely trying to understand, i’m a trans man myself who has been stealth for over 5 years and i haven’t experienced this with other trans men i’ve met. i don’t understand the need to divide us in this way and it feels somewhat counterproductive, but i do want to hear what you mean because i don’t think you’re saying it out of malintent

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