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Trans Talk 2w

sissy

 i went to visit my transfem friend and her transfem friends and they all thought i was cis until i told them 😭😭😭😭😭 it’s so weird passing after i never did before it feels nice but also i said “how dare you assume i’m BORING”
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Anonymous 2w

Girl i completely understand this feeling. I love being stealth/passing around cis ppl but it sucks when other trans ppl don’t recognize me

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Anonymous 2w

like i talked about my experiences in choir and how i have voice dysphoria and they just gave me a look that spoke “magnus carlsen complains about sucking at chess” (it was funny dw) and it’s like, oh my god i really do pass

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Anonymous 1w

same like for me i dont want people to assume i have a dick?? because i dont have one? but i know thats what most people will assume when i pass as a man LOL sometimes being stealth really does suck. i know im in a privileged standpoint saying that but people dont see all of me when they dont see my transness

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Anonymous replying to -> sissy 2w

i feel like passing comes with guilt. like “am i abandoning my community by passing as cis?” and because of trauma i have trouble expressing myself as trans in other ways and i go like, not fully stealth because friends know but semi stealth if that makes sense? but i want to be more open about my transness so that girls like me five years ago can know it’s never too late

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

THIS!!!

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