Trans Talk on Sidechat | I just don’t know if I can be trans anymore. Everywhere I go I feel unsafe. I’m constantly getting mean looks and am looked at like I’m disgusting literally every place I go to. I don’t wanna feel like this villain all the time.

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Trans Talk 6w

I just don’t know if I can be trans anymore. Everywhere I go I feel unsafe. I’m constantly getting mean looks and am looked at like I’m disgusting literally every place I go to. I don’t wanna feel like this villain all the time.

Anonymous 6w

i feel you. it’s been especially bad these last couple of weeks:( 🫂

Anonymous 6w

What do you mean “be trans” you are always trans. If you “detransition” you don’t stop having dysphoria. If you mean stop being openly trans though I understand why.

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Anonymous

#1 6w

yeah it really has🙁

Anonymous

#2 6w

I mean yeah I guess

Anonymous

OP 6w

Just try to get to a blue state if you can and save up money now and research visas so if G-d forbid things get worse you can be ready to move.

Anonymous

#2 6w

I came from Texas (which was horrible) and now I’m in California and it’s still bad

Anonymous

OP 6w

There are more people who are overwhelmingly supportive but I’ve experienced even more mean looks here than Texas which I was not expecting

Anonymous

OP 6w

That’s a big reason why I feel disappointed because I would feel safe here but I still don’t

Anonymous

OP 6w

Sorry to break it to you but there is no golden country to be trans in and you can never escape mean looks if you do not pass (especially if you’re a trans woman who does not pass). Maybe in some super progressive country like Uruguay or city like Madrid you could but there’s not a magical place you will escape everything bad in.