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Don’t call enbies eggs. We know we are trans, thats what being non-binary is. Being condescending about “awww we’ll check in on your (insert binary identity) in a few years” is disgusting and transphobic.
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Anonymous 5w

The amount of times I've had to explain that I don't identify as a man while being on T is crazy, both to regular people and doctors. 3 years and I'm still just as nonbinary as I was the first dose lol

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Anonymous 5w

“Oh oh but my friend always dresses so masc!” “But this person is so clearly a trans woman!” It doesn’t matter. Telling people that you know their own identity better than they do IS transphobia and mean. Furthermore, even if you are correct, let people figure out their shit in their own time. You can say “hey whoever you are, I support you” and move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Also if you’re non-binary and don’t consider yourself trans, I’m not talking about you. I might not understand why you don’t call yourself trans, but that’s for you to decide and none of my business.

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