Trans Talk on Sidechat | Does anyone else have this experience of every man asking you out, then flaking at the last minute. It feels like they want the fantasy of dating a trans woman, not the actual experience of it publicly. It makes me feel sooooo shitty.

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Does anyone else have this experience of every man asking you out, then flaking at the last minute. It feels like they want the fantasy of dating a trans woman, not the actual experience of it publicly. It makes me feel sooooo shitty.

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Anonymous 16w

tbh I used to do this when I was a guy. I think it’s just a mix of “oh, I didn’t think I’d get this far” and anxiety around fucking it up so you would just cancel to avoid the embarrassment. wasn’t specific to trans women (or any particular group), at least for me.

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