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Anyone have tips on knowing if I’m just a femboy or a trans woman? Been struggling for 5 years 😭 😩

Anonymous 2w

Would that come down to more about how you feel about your body when naked. Does it fit what you want to see?

Anonymous 2w

In my experience it’s easier to focus on what you want rather than labels. Like, do you want boobs? If someone on the street called you she/maam, does that feel good, and does it feel better/worse than being called he/sir? Do you think a new name would make you feel more comfortable with yourself?

Anonymous

#2 2w

Sometimes transitioning feels very big and scary, and it’s easier to break it up into the small steps that encompass it. “Do I want this specific small thing?” Is usually an easier question to answer than “Do I want to be a woman?”

Anonymous

#2 2w

I feel comfy with both. But some days I HATE the idea of being trans. Hate hate hate it. Then others I feel like I have to succumb to it. I want my current name even though I tried to go with another a while back. As of this second, I don’t wanna be a woman. But I’m sure my brain will fizzle and I will another day. Or at least present femininely. I was a femboy for a while and then switched back and forth and now I’m considering HRT. Which I feel is wrong for me.

Anonymous

#1 2w

I mean, I want my stomach flatter. But… sometimes I want tits?? Other times I don’t.

Anonymous

OP 2w

I think I would embrace what you have. I can understand wanting boobs though. I think that would be great. I’m happy being a man but I think..mostly sexually…I’d like to be a woman and be able to look all cute and seductive.

Anonymous

#2 1w

That actually helps thank you.