Can’t stop thinking about when my Dad broke down in tears telling me that “sometimes he just wanted to be pretty.” And it breaks my heart that I know what the means and that he won’t ever do the internal work to figure that out ☹️
oh… just reading this kinda makes me wanna cry, too. goddamn. my parents were in similar positions with repressed bisexuality but it’s even more devastating to hear this re: transness & gender nonconformity