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Can’t stand nor understand incel trans men 🫩
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Anonymous 3w

I mean it makes sense Being dropped into an entirely different social system can be isolating on top of a lot of lgbt groups not accepting or listening to them once they pass to well or aren’t visibly queer enough That kinda stuff can push u into shitty places that teach u the wrong solutions 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Nah that’s fair with the guidance bit because ik in my case if I didn’t have the support system I did starting T I would’ve been much angrier but I mean it still doesn’t justify hating women and even to some extent/scenarios wanting to harm them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I mean yeah incel and femcel ideology are inherently toxic and bad for everyone involved I’m just saying it makes sense for them to fall into it Same reason a lot of trans women got pipelined pre transition

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Okay thank you genuinely because you’re lowkey teaching me a lot rn 😭✋🏽 bc I didn’t even know that was a pipeline for MTF too. I’ve just seen/ heard some pretty disgusting comments (not here ofc) from FTM folks about harming women and it’s bugged me as of recently. But with that being said, I don’t really see myself being far from that if I didn’t have the support system I did.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah it’s lowkey radfems is queer spaces is like a massive fucking problem that leads to a lot of these problems and lack of support for that kind of person which furthers the cycle and creation of more shitty people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Nah yeah that actually makes sense, I’m studying social work so I love having informative conversations like this so thank you, it does suck ass tho because ig in my view it’s like “why treat others the same way when you’ve been in those shoes” kinda thing but again, I think it might be my support system that makes me feel/ think this way and ik I’m kinda privileged in that perspective. I don’t have much support or at all much family, but I do have a makeshift family to call my own still.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

And ik a lot of folks in our community don’t even have that, so it makes sense. You’ve been really eye opening, if you wanted to continue this conversation we can DM!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m always free and weirdly over educated on this stuff if u ever wanna ask questions o7 Good luck in social work also

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Thank you so much, it’s not my main major, I want to study something else but it requires having a Bachelor’s in my state to even start the program 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I actually don’t know how yikyak DMs work so if you can DM me first maybe that would work 🤦🏽‍♂️

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