Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Trans Talk icon
Trans Talk 22h
My top 5 transmasc horror stories: 1. Girl bathrooms 2. Getting ma’am’d or she/her’d at work 3. “But [deadname] is such a pretty name!” 4. “You’ve grown into a beautiful young woman” 5. Getting hit on by creepy guys
comment

16
upvote 128 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 22h

It’s been 3 years since I’ve been using men’s bathrooms and ngl they’re a bigger nightmare (generally in worse condition, and the constant fear of “why are you peeing in a stall?”) but ig if you’re androgynous, women’s bathrooms are scarier for safety reasons

upvote 23 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 16h

been barked at at bus stops regularly which went down the more i passed

upvote 15 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 15h

the way reading #4 made my blood run cold and my hair stand on end I had a middle-aged man (who used to be my teacher, no less) give me a card with that written on the inside when he took me out for dinner, made me wanna kms

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 18h

My thing with women bathrooms is I’ll go in and people will pick the stalls next to me even if there are a bunch of free ones and it makes me feel really awkward and it happens consistently

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2h

My favorite thing ever when people learn my deadname is to tell the story about it (it’s a ship name between two real life people, my moms college friend and her boyfriend, and they broke up. My birth name is a failed relationship). People quickly decide my chosen name is much prettier

upvote 4 downvote
🐀
Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

For what it's worth, back when I was supposedly allegedly a dude, I peed sitting down in stalls almost exclusively and no one ever said a word

upvote 14 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I’m androgynous and mens rooms scare the shit out of me, but womens rooms scare me more.

upvote 6 downvote
😈
Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Just play loud ass shitting noises this is the method

upvote 4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> icrackfemboyzzz 16h

Or just shit loudly. Assert dominance. Eat beans

upvote 13 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> ratdealer 16h

does it sound different when it's different genitals? i'm worried that'll out me (but maybe it would be weirder for anyone to bring it up?)

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> prettyboyalphamale 16h

I just gotta eat dairy💔 but most of the time I wish it was audio I could play😞

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

From what I remember I think it’s cause cis guys can aim the stream away from the water so it doesn’t make as much noise but I imagine if a cis guy sits it would sound the same?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

Fuck it ill test. I got a dick, Ill stand and listen and then sit

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

In my head, im always prepared to be like “I got a micropenis” as an excuse LMAOOOOOO (way more embarrassing than being trans, but I live in FL and i don’t wanna go to prison)

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

my fear with men's bathrooms is actually that they'll hear me wipe immediately after pissing (not as necessary with a penis, most cis guys don't do it) 😭 it's dumb because I know nobody pays that much attention in the bathroom but still

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #8 3h

Nah I get you man, I also get really paranoid, but after a while you realize they genuinely do not gaf

upvote 1 downvote